Love You

Last night my dad turned on the last few minutes of The Bachelor while waiting to watch the showed that followed. And in those few minutes I remembered why I haven't watched this show since it's first season. It's a group of women who are either trying to boost their "acting" career or who have such low standards and self esteem that they feel that there are only worthy of chasing some guy around basically begging him to love them.

NEWSFLASH: YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!

There is such an epidemic of women and girls around the world who think that they are worthless unless they have a man in their life. They believe their life is a waste because they're single. You have to make yourself a priority and make loving yourself an even bigger priority. How can you expect a man to love you if you don't know 1) how to love yourself and 2) how to ask for the kind of love you need?

One of my favorite sayings is "when you know better you do better." When you know more about who you are and realize all the greatness you deserve, then you raise your standards of yourself and those around you. You may have to cut some people out of your life and that's ok.

Stop caring about what other people think and make yourself a top priority. Do you really know yourself? I mean deep down in your soul know yourself? It's not easy, but it is crucial if you want to find true happiness. You have to love yourself.

Make it a priority to spend 30 minutes a day learning you and loving you! Always remember that you are enough and that you are worthy and deserve of all the love in the world. Especially from yourself!

Until Next Time,